What are some useful parenting tips in the digital age?
To complement the cyber wellness curriculum in schools, parents can set a good example at home in the use of technology and play an active role in guiding our children to navigate in cyberspace. Here are the steps for PARENTing in the digital age:
Provide opportunities for a variety of offline activities
Spend time with your child by carrying out family tasks such as sport and outdoor activities so that your child has a healthy and balanced lifestyle.
Activate parental control on all computing devices
With parental control, you can block or limit specific apps, websites and features on your child's device.
Role-model good digital habits
Manage your own digital habits such as avoiding extensive use of technology and avoiding use of technology during mealtimes. Show your child safe, responsible and respectful behaviour when sharing, collaborating and creating online.
Establish ground rules for internet use
Some basic rules could include the following:
Dos:
- seek permission before using computing devices
- have a time limit for the use of computing devices
- practise netiquette
- respect intellectual property rights
- follow rules and terms of use of different websites
- access websites that have age restrictions (e.g. many social media sites have age limits for setting up accounts to comply with international regulations on children accessing social media).
- share passwords with others
- share personal information online
- meet strangers face to face without parents’ knowledge
- spread rumours and say mean things online
Navigate the internet with your child to understand their use
Surf the Internet with your child so that you know what they do online and whether they are involved in age-appropriate activities. Explain to your child not to respond to anyone who says something inappropriate and that they should immediately leave any site if they feel uncomfortable.
Talk with your child about their internet use
Get your child to share with you their favourite websites, things they do online and what is cool amongst their friends. Talk to them about their online experiences. For example, discuss the benefits and risks of the Internet, and share how people connect and communicate with one another through it. Finally, let your child know that it is alright to ask you questions or talk to you if they run into problems with someone online.
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